I’m Tired of Wearing This Red Pill Backpack—Here’s How I’m Throwing It Away (For Good) - dating advice illustration

I’m Tired of Wearing This Red Pill Backpack—Here’s How I’m Throwing It Away (For Good)

You’re stuck on the idea that the world’s against you because of your chromosomes. Take the damn backpack off or stop hiking.

Folks, this is the kind of pain you carry when you’re too drunk on your own victim mentality to see the goddamn mirror.

If you think women wrote the rules about men dying, going to jail, and ending up alone…

…you’re the one playing the victim. The whole damn system is built on your shoulders.

Let’s rip into your core argument: Yes, it’s real. No, it doesn’t absolve you.

Sure, 99% of prisoners are men. Not coincidentally. And it’s the same men who built the system, ran the prisons, and wrote the damn books. Your beef isn’t with women—it’s with how men behave, enforce hierarchies, and repeat the same cycle. Custody isn’t handed out like a trophy in some twisted beauty pageant of parenting. You’re the problem, not the solution.

"Sperm is cheap"—What the Hell Kind of Cop-Out Is That?

Evolutionary psychology doesn’t hand you a blueprint for fixing your life. It just gives you a reason to keep whining. You’re not a tragic hero in a sci-fi novel. You’re a man who needs to stop letting a theory of biology replace your responsibility to grow. The real inequality isn’t between genders—it’s between the man who’s stuck in his head and the one who pushes past.

Men Want Equality Until There’s Blood on the Floor

Watch a war film. Women are the ones organizing hospitals. Men? They’re the ones out there with the rifles. You think it’s women keeping men from combat roles? It’s the same bastards who wrote the laws forbidding women from working in certain jobs the minute women tried to get hired. If anyone’s to blame for dangerous jobs being men-only, it’s the men who designed the fences.

Why You’re the Last Person Who Should Complain About Suicide Rates

Buddy, if you’re not asking what’s making men commit suicide, you’re a part of the problem. Depression isn’t a badge to wear—it’s a signal that you’ve been failing your own damn species. Women don’t tell men to bottle emotions. Men do. Same men who cheer when another guy goes into a rage because he ‘lost his temper’ at work. Want blame? Start with you.

Custody, Suicide Rates, Prisons—The Real Story Behind the "Feminism is the Problem" Bullshit

Mothers get custody because, in most cases, they’re the ones who’ve been raising the kids. Not because of a conspiracy or a witch hunt. But let’s say someone wants to fix it—guess who’s still holding the leash? The same red pillers who laugh at therapy, call vulnerability "weak", and expect women to "fix their problems" while you huff and puff about the system. You’re the ones creating the prison and then complaining you can’t get out.

The Big Fat Lie Behind "Masculinity is the Problem"

Call it "toxic masculinity" all you want. But the real problem isn’t the system—it’s you refusing to adapt. You want to fix relationships but won’t talk about emotions? You want equality but won’t admit you’ve been living in a bubble? Stop pretending the world is the enemy. The enemy is the part of you that clings to the rules that got you stuck in the first place.

What You’re Missing in the "System is the Problem" Mindset

You’re fixated on blaming the system. Never once asking how that system was created. Men built the rules, men reinforced them, men are the ones enforcing penalties when the rules are broken. If you want to change it, you start by breaking your own damn habits before you demand the whole damn world bends to you.

Let’s Not Pretend You’re Here to Fix Anything

You keep griping about custody, suicide, and prisons like they’re puzzles to solve. But all you’re doing is spitting out the same old lines while ignoring the root. Complaining without action is like building a bridge with sticks and a bad attitude—you’ll get nowhere and the sticks will rot before they hold anything.

How to Actually Let Go (Without Becoming a Whiny Rebel)

Kill the "man box"—the idea that you can’t show emotion without looking weak, can’t ask for help without looking pathetic, can’t admit you need anything. That box was built by your peers. Now you have to burn it down. Step out of it, and for once, start building a life you control—not one you blame others for.

Final Hit: Stinking is a Relationship Killer—Here’s How to Handle It

Stinks like a dead squirrel in a shoe. If you’re the only one not saying it, then maybe it’s not her. Maybe it’s you. Don’t sugarcoat it like some damn poet. Be a man. Be honest. "Hey. Your detergent smell is like a bad memory. I’d feel better if you switch it." That’s not cruel. That’s communication. If she’s not on board, maybe she’s not the one.