Why the 'Women Are Better Off Alone' Bullshit Doesn't Hold Water (And How to Stop Buying Into It)

You think you're reading a study when you're really just digesting a used-car salesman's pitch. Here's the dirt on why that lie won't save you—and what you'll *actually* need to do to stop being a problem.

Ditch the Self-Sabotage Playbook, You're Not Playing Poker With Your Life

You've got a broken algorithm for dealing with this. That question about "if women are better off without men" isn't a math problem—it's a coward's way to dodge the real work. You're not asking for permission to stay single. You're asking to opt out of growing up.

Why You’re Wrong About Dolan’s 'Study'

Dolan’s Not a Scientist—He’s a Bookstore Baiter

This "study" is the mental equivalent of a park bench you find in a sketchy neighborhood. It looks stable, but one step on it, and it buckles like a fraud. Dolan took a time-use survey and spun it into a headline about women's happiness like a scammer rebranding old tires as "premium rubber." The data shows married and single women are neck-and-neck in happiness, yet he peddles lies like "men profit from marriage" while women supposedly rot alive. Classic. You're eating the same hot dog he flipped for the last decade.

The 'Spouse Absent' Line—You're So Dumb You Made the Internet Smarter Than You

Dolan saw the phrase "spouse absent" and assumed it meant "the wife is happy when the husband leaves the room." The truth? "Spouse absent" meant they hadn't lived together in years. Dude thought missing data meant women admitted they hated marriage. This isn't research—it's a toddler scribbling on the walls and calling it modern art. You’re citing this? Welcome to the circus. You’ve bought a monkey as your life coach.

Confirmation Bias: Your Brain’s Way of Being an Idiot

Your brain isn’t processing facts—you’re running a propaganda war on yourself. Every story about single women getting their priorities straight just feeds your delusion. If all your buds are unattached, you assume it’s the smart move. Newsflash: people bond with others who reflect their own BS. That’s not social behavior—it’s a mirror of your self-sabotage.

Here’s the Brutal Truth: You’re Not a Liability, You’re a Work in Progress

If women are choosing singlesville, it’s not because you’re a poison pill. It’s because your lot has been dragging down their lives with lazy attitudes since the Stone Age. But here’s the catch: you can stop being the dumbfuck version of a man who makes relationships a burden.

Don’t Be That Guy—Actually Put in Work

You can’t fix the problem at a distance. If you want to stop being The Guy™️ who complicates women’s lives, act like an adult. Learn to cook before you ask for seconds. Sweep up your own shoes. Build a life where you bring joy, not chores.

Build Your World Before You Try to Borrow Theirs

Women aren’t running from you—they’re fleeing men who treat relationships like a free labor force. If you have your own social group, your own income, and your own circle, you’re not a leech. You’re a viable partner. But you have to earn it. Start fixing your life today, or keep using "women are happier without me" as an excuse to rot.

Stop Being the Problem and Start Becoming the Answer

You want to know if you're wanted? Stop acting like a deadbeat and start acting like someone who understands relationships require work. Then see what kind of answer you get. But don’t be the guy who blames women for leaving you when you were already dragging your ankles all over the dance floor.